My turn!

There are scores of photographers who frequently take amazing photographs of their own kids, perfectly lit and posed, then enlarge, frame and hang them on the wall with creativity and flair. Oh, how I wish that was me.

I have more pictures of clients hanging in my home than I do of my own kids. I've never ordered a canvas wall hanging of any of them, or even made an album. Its just a little bit sad.

There are a few different things working against me here, the greatest is that my kids(mostly the boys)run when I point the camera toward them. You'd think I had a pistol in my hand.

Once I do manage to get them relatively still and doing something cute, I find I can't concentrate on the intricacies of photography. My thoughts go something like this: "The background is brighter than my subject so I need to set the camera to manual and the flash exposure to...(yelling now)'Trevor, stop hitting your sister!'...where was I? Oh yeah, something about the flash exposure, lets see...(looking up) "Where did Morgan go? Garrett, run over there and bring your sister back.'...oh, the heck with it, set the camera to auto and take the damn shot.

Every once in a while I manage to create a keeper, one worthy of wall space even, but once again I'm more likely to hit the wall than get the flippin picture hung there. I simply can't hang a picture of one of the kids if I don't have a corresponding image of all the others, so I end up doing nothing, again.

Most of the pictures of my kids are snapshots. Still, I love them and feel the need to show them off, and that is the beauty of the SLIDESHOW. There is something special about viewing the pictures along with a touching song, and I never tire of creating or watching my shows.

The following show is a recap of 2008, probably more interesting to me than anyone else as evidenced by the number of times I've already viewed it, but like I said, I'm compelled to share it:



And as always, comments are always appreciated!

~L

Bow Tie Pasta with Asian Chicken-Four Thumbs UP!

My kids are picky eaters. Dinnertime has been evolving into a nightly struggle as I try to cook meals that they will eat. Compounding the problem is the usual reluctance they have about trying anything new. Its a catch 22, and the outcome for the last year or two has been that I have thrown up my hands and basically stopped cooking. Dinner has mainly been comprised of whatever simple, easy thing I pull out of the freezer at the last minute, and many nights I can be found preparing two or three different items-mac and cheese for the boys, grilled cheese for me and D, PB&J for Morgan and Chip fends for himself.

But that is changing. I enjoy cooking, and having everyone sit together at the table, and I REALLY enjoy getting compliments on my meals. I even like to do my menu planning for the week and I LOVE to grocery shop using coupons. It's satisfying because I get such a feeling of accomplishment, and well-being, and I really feel like a great mom when I have a well-rounded meal on the table each night. Maybe I'm channeling one of those 1950's TV moms, but I'm a dork like that.

So last night I made a new recipe. I was a bit hesitant because I got it from the Internet and didn't have a single recommendation, but it looked tasty and simple, and the ingredients were things I already had on hand.

So here we go:

1 lb. bow tie pasta
4 TBS. soy sauce
2 TBS honey
2 TBS. lime juice
3 tsp. Dijon mustard
1 lb. boneless, skinless chicken breasts, cut into 1/2 inch cubes
1/2 cup chicken broth
2 small red bell peppers, cored, seeded, and thinly sliced
4 TBS chopped fresh parsley



I didn't have red bell peppers, so I substituted green. I think red would have been better, and I'm thinking that next time I'll add some frozen green baby peas. The red and green together would make a very Christmassy presentation!

To begin, stir the soy sauce, honey, lime juice and mustard in a bowl until the honey is dissolved. Add the chicken pieces and turn until coated with the marinade.


Refrigerate for 30 minutes.
Transfer the chicken and marinade to a large, non-stick skillet. Cook over medium heat until chicken is cooked through, about 4 minutes.



Remove from heat and pour in the chicken broth.

Prepare the pasta according to package directions. Drain thoroughly in a colander. return the pasta to the pot, add contents of the skillet and the sliced peppers.



Heat to simmering over low heat. Toss the pasta once or twice, add table pepper to taste and divide among serving bowls. Sprinkle each serving with the chopped fresh parsley (which I forgot to add!).



Check out T, he loves it!


In fact ALL FOUR of my kids loved it. Yea me!


In case you are wondering where I got this FAB recipe and want to find more like it: go to HEB.com, click on the Mealtime tab at the top, and then on Meal Planner. I frequently use this to make my shopping list for the week.

And click here for the link straight to the recipe.

I'd love to hear from anyone else who makes it. Comments are always appreciated!

Corrie and Chris: Engagement Session

It's been an fantasitc day, my kids are still up, playing Rock Band and finding more toys for me to get out of all the flippin packaging. What is up with that? I know for sure that when I was a kid my parents didn't spend hours getting Barbie out of the box. I am so sick of little twisty things and tape thats stronger than steel and 10 pound of box for 10 ounces of toy. With the recent "green" movement, shouldn't there be LESS packaging instead of MORE? I think I'll write to my congressman-in fact I'll email, to keep things green.

The last few weeks have been a non-stop workfest with Christmas sessions, cards to create, wedding albums to finalize, shopping, eating, cleaning and cooking, and all this going on with the kids home for the last 7 days. I have a couple sessions still to post, but for now I'll stick up a few from a session last week:
I did a fun and quick family session for a family that is yet to be; one of my dearest past clients is engaged, and she and her fiance wanted pictures of themselves and their kids.
We had planned an outdoor shoot at one of my favorite spots, the Rockwall Ranch leasing office, but the cold and damp weather forced us to do most of the session in Corrie's home, with a few images at a pretty spot in her neighborhood.

Here are the girls. Beautiful.

The sky was gray, drizzly and cold, so we headed back to the house for some quick shots in front of the Christmas tree.

Thanks for a great session guys! I hope you had a wonderful Christmas today!

I can keep all of you in suspense no longer. Here is the show you've been waiting for:



And in case you didn't know, Lindsay is a blogger too! Her blog is hilarious, check her out at:

http://changeisconsistent.blogspot.com/

I'm sure she'd love some comments!

When Richard Met Lindsay

I have a beautiful story to tell you, about a boy and a girl, the war, separation, reuniting and happily ever after. As badly as I wanted to write it myself, I can't really do it justice, and so I've asked them to tell you, in their own words, their story:

Richard-"On September 19, 2007 I was on my way back to Iraq."

Lindsay-"I was working at the USO on my usual Sunday send-off. Send-off is when all of the troops who have been home on their R&R all come back to D/FW airport and catch their big flight back to Iraq or Afghanistan. Our job is to hand out snacks and water, and basically just talk to the guys and gals and help to pass the time by while they wait. Some are there for as long as 24 hours if they were coming from Hawaii or Guam."

Richard-"I had served 9 months so far and the time home was well appreciated. I spent time with friends and family and was looking forward to finishing up my tour and coming back home for good. I arrived at the DFW airport and was directed by the Army folks in charge of the R and R program to set my duffel bag in the USO baggage room and to wait at the USO until my flight was going to leave."

"My friend and roommate Caroline and I were standing at the send-off gate when I looked up and saw a tall, blond hair, blue eyed airman walking towards me. I'll never forget that exact moment that I made eye contact and quickly looked away. I elbowed Caroline and said "Check out the cute airman!"

"As I was walking out of the baggage room I stopped. I stopped
because I saw a girl who caught my eye and thought that she was the most beautiful girl I'd ever seen. I saw she had on a name tag and that she was a volunteer. I brushed it off thinking that she must be married or in a relationship with some other military guy. Probably from nearby Ft. Hood or Sheppard AFB. There's no way a girl that good looking working at the USO could be single..."

"Well a few minutes go by and I couldn't stop thinking about how cute that Airman was, and our eye contact just seemed electric. So I told Caroline I was off to see about finding that "cute airman" again."

"I headed to the USO and checked my email made a phone call to a friend and linked up with my buddy Hector who I knew from our pre-deployment training. He was doing the same mission I was and just happened to take his R and R the same time I did. Since we were both stationed in San Antonio we were on all the same flights. We went to the terminal and took a seat in the corner. A country/folk style band that was flying out stopped and played a few songs for all of the guys going back. I looked over and saw the beautiful girl again..."

"Of course, I'm too shy and old school to just approach him. So I just leisurely sat down near him...at least 4 chairs away...because I'm a lady. A country band was waiting to board their plane on the gate next to ours and offered to play our soldiers (and airman!) a song to help pass the time."

"Looking down at her left hand I saw she wasn't married so I leaned over and
asked her if she knew the name of the band that was playing."

"I told him I had no clue, and the conversation sparked from there."


"We started talking about my deployment and how I was
one of the few Air Force guys that comes through on the R and R program."

"Where are you from? What do you do? How long have you been over there? Why do you volunteer here at the USO?"

"We talked for about an hour,"

"That hour passed by so quickly!"

"...and one of the other USO volunteers came
over and took our picture..."

"(and to tease me because she knew I thought he was cute)."


"I gave her my email address and asked her to send it to me hoping that I would get a chance to talk to her again. We hugged before I got on the plane and I thought about her the entire flight back to Iraq.
A few days later I got an email from her and we began to talk more about ourselves. I remember asking her how she could possibly be single and how she started volunteering at the USO. She had just gotten out of a long term relationship before moving to Dallas and had lost a friend in Iraq which prompted her to want to do something to serve her country and the men and women who fight for it."

"After a few emails he asked if I was single and if it would be okay for him to call me. So of course I said an enthusiastic YES! and from then on we became friends. I was casually dating someone else and thought if nothing else, he was cute and funny and would be a good friend."

"We continued to talk through email and phone calls..."

"At the time, I had no intentions of ever dating a military man again. But I quickly changed my tune for *R*.

Within a few weeks I was pretty enamored with him, but I thought I knew how things would go with guys who are deployed. They talk a big game while they are over there, about wanting to commit, wanting a 'good girl' then they come home and decide a bad girl is much more interesting and more convenient. Let's just say, working at the USO allowed me the opportunity to hear from A LOT of soldiers who had done that.
So I told him that when he got home we could go on a date, and take it from there. But all of my friends would tell you I was already completely taken with him, they called him my 'Iraq Boyfriend', and I would say "He is NOT my boyfriend!", but then I would give in and say, okay maybe a little bit.

I know it sounds so silly to say. I had only met him for an hour at the gate, but after 4 months of getting to know each other through hours on the phone and hundreds of emails, I felt like he was my boyfriend, although I completely refused to put that label on it. I didn't want for him to come home and for me to get my heart broken. Also, I always said it's very easy for him to say the right thing from thousands of miles away in a war zone. It's very different to actually be that man in person.

After 4 months of building a platonic friendship over the phone/Internet we were both nervous it wouldn't be the same in person. What if he wasn't who he said he was? What if he smells weird? What if he is disappointed in me? All of those questions plus a thousand more.

And then, he came home...."

"...and when I returned home I met her at the airport in the same terminal we had started our conversation nearly four months before."

"The day came when he finally was home, it was a long waited 4 months. I was on my way to the airport (to volunteer at the USO again) when he called. I figured he was about to tell me he was back in San Antonio and would see me later. But he didn't he said, "Guess where I am". I said, "Geee....anywhere besides Iraq is good with me!" and he said, "the Dallas airport". When I finally pulled into the airport I ran through security and stood in front of the gate he said he would be at. I stood there, in middle of the hallway, just staring at the gate. The airport was packed with people, December 29th makes for some busy holiday travel. Finally, I called him. "Where are you?""At the gate!"........ Dead air. That's what I heard. When all of sudden I saw someone running towards me from my right side. Before I even had a chance to turn my head I felt his arms wrap around me. My hands were shaking. But he just held me and hugged me and made me feel like we were the only two people in the world. We shared our first kiss in the middle of the airport hallway, with hundreds of strangers, only a few gates away from where we first met 4 months prior. After 15 extremely short minutes together, he had to board his plane to San Antonio. I watched him walk down that jetway to board a plane once again. I cried a tear or two, then giddily (is that even a word?) made my way to the USO. 5 hours later I was getting off a plane in San Antonio, and the rest, as they say, is history."

"We started our relationship and we are now engaged and living together. I could not be happier!"

And so now blog readers, I'm sure you are dying to see these two, waiting on pins and needles to get a glimpse of the love they share:







Well, I'm afraid you'll have to wait a bit longer to see more. Check back soon for their slideshow. I don't think you'll be disappointed!

Peebles Family: Lifestyle Session

It took a ridiculously long time, but I finally had the opportunity to shoot the Lifestyle Contest winning session. Marilyn submitted an amazing entry, and I have been waiting for what seems like eons for the session day to arrive.

Here, once again, is Marilyn's contest entry:

We love Gruene, Texas. Prior to having kids, Jonah and I spent many weekends there listenting to live music and staying at the Gruene Mansion Inn for a mini-getaway. It is still a place we love to take the boys on Friday afternoons to listen to the sound checks at Gruene Hall or have a frosty beverage at the Grist Mill while the boys play in the open field. The kids love to get a scoop of ice cream or a candy stick from the General Store. So, I thought it would be fun to have a "Tour of Gruene" session, with pictures doing our favorite things there: dipping our toes in the river, eating ice cream on the stools at the General Store, playing pool with the boys and listening/dancing to music at the Gruene Hall, spinning under the stars in the open field by the Grist Mill, etc. I think it would be fun to celebrate our Texas roots with pictures with the boys in Gruene.

Unfortunately, I wasn't able to get the ice-cream shots or the Gruene Hall dancing images, but I think we still got some amazing images.

Marilyn and Jonah, thanks so much for sharing your beautiful family with me. I hope you enjoy the slideshow!

Klaunig Family: Lifestyle Session

Each spring I set up a booth at the Kendal Elementary Renaissance Fair out in Boerne. The fair is the school's only fund raiser for the entire year, and it features food and game booths, performances by local karate and gymnastics teams, games and art stations for the kids and a silent auction.

I always donate a photography package, which includes the session, prints and a slideshow DVD, and this year the winning bidder happened to be a photographer! Norman Klaunig owned a very successful studio on Dallas, before moving to San Antonio to persue a new career. I am thrilled and honored that he chose me to photograph him and his family.

The session took place in downtown Boerne, the Saturday after Thanksgiving. The Klaunigs didn't want "Christmassy" pictures, and since Boerne was decked out with EVERYTHING Christmas, we had a bit of a challenge before us. Our solution was to head toward the river, and it was there that we got the images that we were after.

Here's a fun shot of the men of the family:

And a gorgeous image of the girls:

The entire family. The three kids are TRIPLETS. Can you imagine the fun, the fights, the love? It must be heaven on earth.

Mother and son:

I saw this sign on the side of a building as I was drivin in, and knew we had to use it. I'm just wondering which of them is "good."

Isn't she sweet?

This guy is very mischevious and incredibly handsome:

And this one is already looking very mature and sophisticated for her age:

Two of them are running for class president at school, so we got some "presidential" shots. Here is one of them:

ER, this one is NOT so presidential, but he'd still get my vote!

Mom and Dad really enjoyed watching the antics of their kids:

It was difficult to get a picture of these three being serious all at the same time, but I'd rather see them having fun:

I didn't ask the Klaunigs to pose like this. They were standing in this position, admiring their gorgeous family, and I noticed the arrangement when I backed up to get a different view of the kids. Perfection:

As we headed back to the car, we spotted one more location at Ye Kendal Inn, which is an historic hotel located right on the town square:

The last image of the day:

Klaunig family, thanks a million for the opportunity to photograph all of you. I hope you enjoyed it as much as I did!

Weimer Family: Mission Espada

It is always a welcome change for me when I get the opportunity to photograph families with teenagers. For some reason it seems that family shoots usually involve little ones, and though I often photograph teens, they are usually alone and celebrating a milestone such as graduation.

This past weekend, on an incredibly gorgeous Sunday afternoon, I spent a couple of hours with the Weimer family-Diana, Jim, K and C (sorry, I try not to pair kids names with faces here on my blog). I met Diana a few years ago when our daughters cheered on the same team. She and Jim have made it a family tradition to have pictures made in every state in which they have lived, and I was incredibly honored to take the pictures which will represent the time they have spent here in Texas.

I usually try to leave the choice of location to my clients, and in this case I think they made the perfect choice. Mission Espada is rustic, time-worn, and steeped in Texas history. The weathered walls of the 200 year old mission, along with 100 year old oaks, arched doorways and wooden doors, all combine to provide endless settings for dramatic images:






Thanks guys for hanging out and being such good sports about everything. You're the best!
-L

Mandy and BJ: Married!

A few months ago, I shot the engagement session for Mandy and BJ, two of the most loving people that I've ever met. They have an almost palpable sense of respect and concern for each other, a quality that more often is found among people from an older generation. Not once did I hear him answer her in exasperation, or see her roll her eyes at one of his off-the-wall suggestions. It's like they live and breathe for each other.

It came as no surprise then, that their wedding was as calm and relaxed as could be. Mandy was perfectly serene, and BJ simply radiated confidence. If there was stress or discord behind the scenes, it certainly didn't show. The day unfolded beautifully, and I was extremly honored to capture it for them.

Guys, I know that you are enjoying your honeymoon right now, but when you return I hope you enjoy this little peek at your day:

What I Did in Vegas

So, lets see-the last time I posted was before my big Vegas trip. And yeah, it was a TRIP. Most of what happened there was completly illegal, immoral and not something I can share, 'cuz you know what they say about "What happens in Vegas" so I'll just post the one or two innocent images that we took.

This one is safe-this is Gina and me on the plane, ready for our adventure:


And here we are at a club called Pure. I love how my head looks like its spit open at the top. That is actually how it felt the next morning:


I think I wore brown every single day. I really need some color in my wardrobe, and my life!


And here is Gina at our #1 favorite Vegas hotspot-the M&M store! See, we are really wild women:


Sorry that I can't post the really juicy ones, but at least I'm saving you from the endless pictures of us in front of every fountain and hotel on the strip. Beacuse that is what we REALLY did in Vegas. I swear.

Happy Birthday!

This past month has been as slow, slow, slow for Ever After Photography. I shot two weddings for another photography studio, and thats about it.

November, however, is going to be HUGE. It seems most of my Fall sessions will be done in the next four weeks-I have an engagement session, three family lifestyle sessions, a maternity session and a wedding. Most of my sessions take place during the weekend, so almost every weekend is completly booked. Not to mention the orders I've been getting from past clients-I think that everyone has started thinking about Christmas gifts and cards.

So you might be wondering what I'm doing this weekend. I'll be in Vegas, celebrating my 40th Birthday! I didn't know about the trip until a week ago, when my best friend took me to lunch to let me in on the surprise. Apparently, she has been planning this for quite a while, with my husband, sister and several of our friends in on the secret.

The funny thing is that every year I think I'm getting a surprise party. I look for clues and get my self all worked up, certain that I even know who is invited and where it might be. It NEVER happens. Every year the party only exists in my pitiful, sad head.

And so of course this year I was beginning to think that something was up. There were SIGNS. I could FEEL it. Then just as quickly, I'd crash, hit bottom with the realization that every year I do this to myself. There will be no party this year, just like there was none last year, or the year before.

But WOOHOO!!! I didn't turn 40 those other years! I was a measly, young, inexperienced 39 or 38. 40 is GREAT! The surprise was REALLY a surprise. I'm floored, flabbergasted, and flustered.

So I'm getting out of Dodge tomorrow morning, leaving for 3 long days of grown-up fun-no kids getting in my bed at 3 AM, no dinners to fix, no butts to wipe.

I'm not even taking my camera. Nope, no pictures. I'm taking a break from that, too.

It's going to be so fun, relaxing and filled with freedom. 16 hours and counting, I'll be on a plane. Whoohoo, heehaw, yippe!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you Gina, for taking me on this incredible trip, and a HUGE thanks goes to my husband, for holding down the fort while I'm gone. I can't wait until we can get away together, hopefully it'll be sometime soon.

Since it is a crime to post without adding some images, I'll treat you to some pictures of my kids' birthdays. G turned 7 in Sept., T is now 6, and M is a tender 4years old.

Happy Birthday to all of us!

Marie-Therese Gown GIVEAWAY !!!!!!!

Marie-Therese Gown GIVEAWAY !!!!!!!

This lady made a fabulous Marie Antoinette dress, and is GIVING it away. I'm posting a link to her blog here, because that enters me into the contest to win it. You never know- cuz you can't win if you don't enter.

K: Headshots

There is a little park down the street from my house that is just perfect for taking a few quick shots when we don't have time for a full-out session. I went out there last week with this handsome guy so that he could get a few head shot images for his modeling portfolio.






And this is K with his mom, Gina. Can you see where he gets his good looks?


Thanks guys! That was tons of fun.

Peace,
L